9.27.2019

and so it happened...one of our 'kids' is engaged.

I am engaged to the sweetest and most caring man I have ever known. I love him with my all and couldn’t imagine living my life without him. I am so very blessed and the happiest I have ever been in my life. 💍❤️
I count Kayla right in there with our little K's. she's been a fixture in Katie's life since preschool. our littles are growing up....

but this...this...well, this was something I don't think I'll ever forget. ever.

A filmmaker tries to prove that ghosts are real but soon regrets his intentions after he finds himself being terrorized in a haunted house by a ghost with a dark past. An authentic documentary that shows actual ghost footage that was captured on camera.
scary. fucking. shit. and a ghost hunter with his own plane? I'm jealous. that would make so much more accessible for #ghosthuntingwithtracyanddeb

today is the day that The Sasquatch People goes back on the shelf.

I made it to page 168. and I just can't. life is too short. I enjoyed the documentary series. but this. nope. nope. nope. and the book will look nice on the shelf. next to the other 2 of his books I purchased. Jersey Devil help me.

we made it and vacation is upon us!

Miss Z brought her mommy & daddy over to visit. we're about packed up. have my fave comfy sweats in the washer, have to get them dried and packed. it's gonna happen. it really is.

9.26.2019

last night we had breakfast for supper at Crazy Horse Cafe

tonight we went to see Angel Has Fallen (Kevin's choice) and as Kevin movies go, it was ok, but definitely could've used a Bigfoot or two in the forest scenes....who better to protect the President than a Sasquatch? exactly.
and, I've come to accept the Senior Citizen Discount, I guess. I might as well get used to the mother fucker. it has reared it's ugly head a lot lately...
come on, picture it with me. how fabulous would a Bigfoot be in these scenes?
and some Sonic. and I ordered an age appropriate Highlights magazine sub. for each of the grandkids....'cause how cool will it be to get their own mail?

9.25.2019

Happy national daughters day to the girl who made me a mom. You keep me on my toes and I couldn’t imagine my life without you. I love you more than anything in this world and I’m so glad I’m your mom. You are my sunshine Zerelda James Dailey ❤️

this one's on the bucket list....In 2015, a storm blew through Amber, Iowa. When it had passed, two hula hoops were dangling off the limbs of a tree on County Home Road. No one is sure if someone put the hula hoops there, or if they were somehow blown in the wind and lodged into the tree during the storm, as the local legend holds. In any case, more and more hula hoops began to appear on the tree. There are now more than 50 colorful hoops hanging from the branches. It’s a mystery as to who started adorning the tree with the toys, or why. But the whimsical tradition has spread its roots further and further through Iowa as more people come to seek out the curious tree, some adding their own hula hoop. If you visit, be sure to look down at the ground, too. One local woman has occasionally been placing rocks with a picture of the hula hoop tree painted on them at the trunk of the tree, a delightful bonus for those who find them. Know Before You Go The tree is in the community of Amber in Jones County, about 3.4 miles east of US151 between the towns of Anamosa and Monticello.

I really do miss these days....even the boosting them up there!

I ♥️these girls more than words can say... Happy National Daughters Day, Koren Wills & Katie Dailey. I can't even imagine life without you!

we're counting down the days till our anniversary trip...2 more, if you're wondering.

dog sitter is lined up. long list of possible activities. my new Stephen King book packed away to start reading. just hoping Kevin's special gift arrives in time. (hint, it goes with my special gift).

a Facebook friend shared this.....lol. for reals.

If u look real close to the left behind that big tree...there's a Sasquatch an he's eating Jack links beef jerky.

9.23.2019

Snickers wonders where the h*#" Koren & Cody are...

Mom???? Dad??? Anyone???

Forget 🦆 🦆🦆🦆 I've got my #chiefsm&ms #inarow #priorities #gochiefs❤️💛🏈 #nfl🏈 #thisisouryear🏆 #kansascitychiefsfan

well, for fucks sake...

LOAN BALANCE $5,557.32 Maturity date 5/2/2021
I thought it would be paid by 2020...oh, well. it'll work. it'll work. all is well. I maybe walking on my ankle nubs by then, but, as God is my witness....well. you know the rest. not gonna break my stride...no, no, got to keep on moving....

I’m so fancy

9.21.2019

I see a face in the top left window....a small boy....telling me goodbye... my grandson #ianboyd #ialwaysseefacesinwindows #pareidolia #alwaysghosthunting👻

just got home from 4 days of babysitting grandkids....you forget how much work it is. it is constantly meal time or someone is sad or needs their butt changed or wiped or bubbles opened or help finding something....but I know about The Jelly Monster and that Ian's favorite colors are orange and blue and green...and Cora's are pink and purple...and that little Miss Violet will not be pushed around or left out. Papa sent me home to work tomorrow and it seems all the chaos left with Gramma. funny how that seems to work. tons of pics to post. I love these kids so much. yeah, we raised three of our own...but they were further apart in age, and they were ours, so it didn't seem like we could screw them up and we had our own rules. it was loud and chaotic and sweet and funny and heartbreaking at times....this brings back so many memories.

9.16.2019

had to update my traveling map....and going to add Wisconsin on our anniversary trip!!!

we went for the ducks.....I like to fashion myself as a ghost hunter, but I don't seem to be very perceptive of possible spirits....

The Peabody Hotel is well known in the area for the Peabody Ducks that live on the rooftop and visit the lobby daily. The peabody hotel is also known for being haunted by a ghost that likes to wander around the Eleventh floor of the hotel. This ghost like to whisper as he walks through the hotel and guests have also noticed cold spots and strange noises all coming from the eleventh floor.

this was on the Haunted Memphis Walking Tour but we didn't get to go inside....

The Orpheum Theatre in Memphis is said to be haunted by the spirit of a little girl named Mary who died in some kind of accident on a nearby street. She has been hanging around in the theatre for about sixty years now even although the original building burned down in 1923 and reopened in 1928. She is often seen in her favourite seat – C5 and sometimes she is heard giggling while running up and down the aisles.

been there, done that....

Carnton Plantation has the unusual feature of having a front porch that overlooks a graveyard where approximately 1700 Confederate troops were buried in the wake of a bloody battle nearby. Shortly after the mass burial, the mansion was transformed into a hospital. There were four Generals who died inside and the staff held on to their bodies so that survivors would later be able to pay their respects. All of this explains why so many witnesses have seen the ghosts of confederate soldiers roaming around the mansion and its grounds. However, these are not the only spirits said to haunt the Carnton Mansion. It has also been suggested that the spirits of the Carnton children are also haunting their former home since only two of the five children survived to adulthood. All of this is more than enough to secure Carnton Mansion as one of the most haunted houses in Tennessee, but there are yet more restless spirits here! Among the other spirits spotted in the mansion are a young girl who was murdered by a jealous suitor, the family cook who is struggling to let go of her duties to the family and a beautiful woman with long dark hair.

went here on the Haunted Memphis Walking Tour and photographed my first orb!

The former Memphis brothel, Ernestine & Hazel’s has the reputation for being one of the most haunted buildings, not just in the state of Tennessee, but in the entire United States! The building is home to a number of ghosts and even boasts its own haunted jukebox! Several customers have reported being touched, in the bathrooms when nobody else is around. There have been multiple full bodied apparitions, seen wandering around in the building and these have also been caught on film. A woman’s face has also been seen in the window of a second floor bedroom, when the room was known to be empty. The most famous tale of paranormal activity here, is certainly the haunted jukebox. Pretty much every single day, a customer’s song will play, before they put their money in or make their selection. It has also been known to turn on and off randomly and even play when not plugged in. However, perhaps the best part of all about this haunted jukebox, is that it seems to ‘listen’ to conversations going on around it and then play a song that seems to perfectly sum up the conversation.

is Graceland haunted? google thinks so....

One of the most famous tourist attractions in all of Memphis is of course, Graceland – the former home of the king himself, Mr Elvis Presley. The building is almost like a time capsule, preserving his memory and perhaps his spirit too. The property sees more than half a million visitors every single year and a good number of them have claimed to see an apparition of Elviswww. Most of the reports seem very similar. He is seen gazing down from one of the windows watching the hordes of admirers entering his home. A few even claim to have captured his spirit on camera, but the images tend to be very blurry.

looks like a stripper bus threw up on a Barbie van...

seems like we're always rushing here and there...to work, through work, home, to the chiropractor, to the movies, out to eat...today got a Juror Qualification United States District Court For the Western District of Missouri. I'm one lucky gal. went out to eat. watched an amazing Chiefs/Rams game yesterday. found a dog sitter. talked to Koren. texts from Katie. snapchats from KJ. I love my kids and love that they include me in their lives. I don't want to bother them. I just want to soak in their glory.

9.14.2019

hmmmm....what rooms did we stay in again?

Is this hotel the House of the Rising Sun? It’s not very often that you get the opportunity to stay in a haunted hotel that was also once the site of an alleged brothel. Here in New Orleans, there are a few hotel options that can satisfy this unique demand, but no hotel in the Crescent City can handle the “haunted” and “brothel” aspect quite the way the Hotel Villa Convento can. (Check TripAdvisor Reviews and you’ll find “sexy vibe” pop up more times than should be considered normal for a hotel--guess if you have it, flaunt it, right?). And the Hotel Villa Convento has it. With Greek Revival architectural accents, but a Creole townhouse structural foundation, there are not many hotels which can offer the same French Quarter-esque flare of the Hotel Villa Convento. Located on the historic Ursulines Avenue, the hotel is only a matter of a few blocks from Jackson Square and St. Louis Cathedral. Just steps from the hotel itself is the Ursuline Convent, the oldest structure on the west side of the Mississippi River. Did I mention that this hotel is reportedly the property that the infamous House of the Rising Sun song is based on? (There is recent speculation that perhaps House of the Rising Sun was not just one bordello but a company with various properties, as brothels were shut down on the regular). Staying the night at this haunted hotel certainly holds promise for thrill-seekers out there hoping to have their own paranormal experience. As for what might actually happen to you during your stay at the Hotel? That remains to be seen . . . The History of the Villa Convento From the Faithful . . . In its original form, the plot of land which is now the Hotel Villa Convento once belonged to the Ursuline nuns. The nuns had arrived early in the French Colonization period, though they had been second choice for Sieur Bienville, New Orleans’ founder. The nuns he had wanted weren’t available, but the Ursuline nuns came with good backing from the French king and Bienville agreed. (Nothing like coming in second best). Though the Ursuline nuns were greatly loved within the city, they were unable to hold onto all of their original land--in 1805 they partitioned some of it off, and the Hotel Villa Convento’s plot of land was sold. . . . to the Many The lot where the Hotel Villa Convento stands now passed between many hands after the Ursuline nuns sold it off, but it eventually found itself in the grip of a Frenchman named Jean Baptiste Poeyfarre. The townhouse Poeyfarre built around the year 1833 is the same structure that stands at the location today. For a period of time, the home remained in the Poeyfarre hands, but when Jean Baptiste Poeyfarre died ten years later, his widow sold off the property once again. This time, Octave Voorheis was the lucky recipient of the beautiful Creole townhouse. But he was unable to hold onto it for long: Voorheis lost the building during the period following the Civil War in the midst of a heavy depression. With the South’s wealth depleted from the war, life in New Orleans certainly became more turbulent. Gone were the days of wealth and endless fortune. The Union troops may have stormed into the Crescent City in 1862 and remained for the rest of the War, but there was no mistaking New Orleans’ nosedive after the Civil War’s conclusion. New Orleans, the most popular city in America, had failed to meet the prosperity of its former, antebellum self, and the further the city sank the more it became a location for vice and sin. It is during this period that it is believed that the Hotel Villa Convento had probably become a brothel. There is not much concrete evidence to say this with any sort of definitiveness, but records do show that something must have been going at 616 Ursulines Avenue during these years. And if this true . . . well, it's safe to say that nineteenth century bordellos in New Orleans were not the nicest of places. Women were beaten; men were sometimes killed and stripped of any of their personal belongings; and syphilis ran rampant. Pleasant, it was not. Soon enough, the property once again was sold. In only a twenty-year period, the house on this lot exchanged ownership two more times. Pasquale Taromina purchased the property in March of 1902, and the family lived in residence until 1946. The Hotel in the mid-20th century and Beyond After 1946, the property of the Hotel Villa Convento was once more passed into new hands . . . but this time, it was not home to one single person. Called the “Old Town Villa,” the property actually became a sort of rotating home for those who had no other place to stay while they were New Orleans. The Old Town Villa’s most famous guest? Jimmy Buffett. Yes, that Jimmy Buffett. While at the hotel, he stayed in Room 305, which today is unofficially known as the Jimmy Buffet Room. (We’re quickly racking up the reasons why you should book your reservation for the Hotel Villa Convento right after you finish this article). The Campo Family: The World of the Hotel Villa Convento It was not until September of 1981 that the property would, once more, move on to a new owner. This time around the Campo family purchased the building. The ancestors of the Campos had actually arrived around the same period as the Ursuline nuns, but from the Canary Islands. Called Los Isleńos here in Louisiana, large quantities of people from the Islands flocked to New Orleans during the 18th and early 19th centuries (click here to learn more about this). Some of their descendants, the modern day Campos, purchased the property at 616 Ursulines Avenue and opened it as a hotel. Today, the Hotel Villa Convento is known for its cozy, and quirky, atmosphere. Walking through the hotel, it is easy to see how this structure was once a family residence. Each of the twenty-five guestrooms, comes with a beautiful view, whether that be of the interior courtyard, looking out into the gardens of the historic Beauregard-Keyes House or the Ursulines Convent, or taking in the stunning downtown New Orleans skyline. (If you’re looking to book your stay for one of the rooms with these particular views, make sure to do so a few months in advance!) For Emily, one of the hotel’s key employees and our guide of the property, Rooms 302 (which overlooks the Ursulines Avenue) and 401 (which has a breath-taking view of the city) are her personal favorites. In fact, Emily was actually a repeat guest of the hotel before she and her family moved to New Orleans so she could take a position with the hotel. This sort of dedicated love to the hotel doesn’t stop with just Emily; another one of the employees did the exact same thing. The Hotel Villa Convento fosters a family-like establishment, where the staff enjoys learning about the guests and asking about their day. As Emily appropriately said, staying at the hotel is “like staying at someone’s house, but you still have your privacy if you want it." But I'll be honest when I say that although you might be able to have your privacy from the living, it’s much harder to earn some alone-time from the hotel’s ghostly residents. And unlike many other haunted locations in the city of New Orleans, there is not much of a shock in who the spirits haunting the hotel might be. The Ghosts of the Hotel Villa Convento So, the hotel is haunted you say? Oh yes. The Ghost of the Madame The Hotel Villa Convento is said to be haunted by the ghost of one its former madams. Brothels in particular tend to be hotspots for hauntings and ghosts, thanks to all that negative energy, death and other types of tragedy. Guests staying at the hotel have reported hearing knocking on the door and, as Emily explained to us during our tour, madams were known to knock to alert the couple inside that their “time was up.” Strangely enough, the Madame's spirit makes herself known to the men who stay at the hotel more frequently. There have been reports of couples doing the “deed”, if you will, when the man rolls over, only to find an apparition of a woman dressed all in black staring at him from the side of the bed. The husband almost always stops, gathering his wife’s attention as he points frantically at the apparition. But the wife can never see the Madame, ghost or otherwise, and no doubt the husband is left feeling a bit out of sorts. In another instance, a man staying in Room 301 happened to be using the restroom during the middle of the night when he heard the distinct words, “Hey baby” whispered in his ear. His panic was acute, momentarily paralyzing him, before he launched up and hurried to where his wife slept. The words were clear as day, and the voice—well, he’d heard the voice before. Apparently when checking in, the man was convinced that he’d heard a woman’s voice say his name when he stood on the front steps of the hotel smoking a cigarette. But his wife had been inside by the front desk, checking in with Emily, and there had not been a single soul around him. Was that disembodied voice the ghost of the Madame herself, trying her to best to capture the man’s attention? It seems that the ghost of the Madame likes to still keep watch over those who stay at the Hotel Villa Convento. As Tim Nealon, founder and owner of Ghost City Tours, once said: “Either we have the ghost of a Madame who was quite the control freak or one that is still just a freak.” (Here’s to hoping it’s the former). Haunted Room 209 It was clear during our tour of the Hotel Villa Convento that, unlike many other hotels where only one room is haunted, paranormal activity is known to occur in many of the various guest rooms at 616 Ursulines Avenue. In Room 302, one woman reported that she actually saw an apparition manifest right before her own very eyes. According to Emily, this one particular guest was a yearly visitor of the hotel; the sort of guest who always come during the season and always requested the same room. 302, with its beautiful view of the Convent and Beauregard-Keyes House, was undoubtedly her favorite. But one sighting of the ghost, one inexplicable spirit, and the woman refused to stay in Room 302 ever again. Who was this paranormal entity? It seems the details will always remain with the woman who saw it. In Room 305, the Jimmy Buffet room, the traditional paranormal happenings have been known to occur, although certainly not to the same extent as many of the other suites. Personal belongings being moved about; unexplainable noises. In the ghostly world, this phenomena is the norm. But one day, Room 305 proved eery enough that even Emily, a two-year employee of the hotel, decided to stop what she was doing and head downstairs. She’d gone upstairs to 305 in order to check the hairdryer; it was a simple enough of task, but the moment she stepped foot into the room she began to feel as though someone was watching her. As Emily told us, she’s never really experienced paranormal activity at the hotel—she suspects it might be because the ghosts leave her alone as she’s an employee—but that one hair-raising moment in haunted Room 305 was enough to send fleeing downstairs to turn on the TV and pretend nothing out of the ordinary had happened. But although ghostly phenomena has been reported in various guest rooms of the hotel, Room 209 has labelled the most haunted spot. During the hotel’s boardinghouse days during the mid-twentieth century, a man allegedly committed suicide in the tub of this room. There is little knowledge as to what caused the man to take his own life, but its clear that something or someone is still haunting this room. Guests have told management and staff that they have heard voices; personal belongings are moved about within the room; and one day, a guest staying in 209 actually explained that they’d seen a white flag tied to the iron balcony. Except that disembodied voices are never pinned to the living; the items are moved without rhyme or reason and no one of the living to claim responsibility for shifting things around; and that flag dancing in the wind was never actually there. The Newlyweds Next Door The Hotel Villa Convento’s hauntings are harmless, pranks at best and eery at worst, but it’s safe to say that the ghosts of the property clearly have an agenda of their own. It’s their world and guests are just visiting it. The sounds of someone knocking on the door, of coughing or high-pitched childish laughter (even though children are not allowed) keeps the hotel feeling very active and alive, even in the dead of night when everyone is asleep. Then again, there has been one other occasion when the sounds that were being heard were of the 'naughty variety'. It was late one summer night when a couple staying at the Hotel Villa Convento were getting ready for bed. After having quite a long day wandering around the French Quarter, they were eager for some sleep. They shut the TV off and hiked the covers up to get comfortable. But then, it started: the sounds of giggling and the sounds of pleasure echoing from the room next door. The couple exchanged a laugh and a knowing smile. “Newlyweds,” they said to each other. For the rest of the night, the newlyweds next door kept it up, until the point when the couple skipped right from the “understanding” phase and proceeded straight for “annoyance and frustration.” When they looked at each other again, they muttered, “Newlyweds” with much less gusto than the first time. The next morning, they ambled down the steps to the front desk. To the attendant, the husband pointed his finger toward the second floor where they had stayed the night. “Tell me,” he said, “did we have a pair of newlyweds next door?” “Newlyweds?” the attendant replied, her expression one of confusion. “Yeah, next door to us,” the wife said. “We heard them all night.” The attendant shook her head. “I’m sorry, but there wasn’t anyone staying in the room next to yours last night. That room is under construction.” The couple did not believe her and asked to be shown the room. The attendant agreed, and so the trio clambered back up the steps. Unlocking the door, it was clear to see that the guest room was in no way prepared for visitors anytime soon. Construction equipment littered the floor, and sawdust was sprinkled like fallen snow over all the saws and hammers and other tools. The couple paused and looked at each, both somewhat nervous to ask the hotel attendant if what they’d heard had been of the paranormal world. It’s safe to say that it was. Although the ghost of the Madame is easily the most reported paranormal entity within the Hotel Villa Convento, the residual energy lingering on the property surely has a lot to do with the brothel and the spirits of the people who once occupied the building instead. A good friend of Ghost City Tours, author James Caskey, was staying at the Hotel Villa Convento while researching his book, The Haunted History of New Orleans. He swore that this hotel, more than any other, was the most haunted location he encountered while staying in New Orleans. Staying the Night At the Haunted Hotel Villa Convento Since purchasing the property in 1981, the Campo family has done a fantastic job in restoring the building back to its original splendor. In fact, Mr. Leroy, the hotel’s resident handyman, has been with the family and the hotel for nearly thirty years—preservation at a historical property never ends. With a history that includes Jimmy Buffet, the notorious setting for the House of the Rising Sun, and a property that predates even the current St. Louis Cathedral, staying in the Hotel Vila Convento is certainly like staying in a bygone era. The hotel boasts that guests staying at the hotel should, “Enjoy a cup of chicory coffee on the courtyard or be encapsulated by the sounds and smells of the French Quarter sitting on a balcony--a stay at the Villa Convento will provide many memories, not just a place to rest your head.” And if that’s not enough to lure you in, perhaps the fact that the hotel offers complimentary parking to its guests is—the garage is located just a ten minute walk from the hotel and is on a first-come-first-serve basis. Even so, free parking of any variety is like finding the Holy Grail in the French Quarter so be sure to take advantage! But the Hotel Villa Convento also offers a darker, more scandalous past, as well. And when making your reservation, you’ve got to ask yourself: Are you brave enough to stay the night at this legendary haunted hotel?

Koren & Co. had a family adventure at Ren Fest today....her kids are never bored!

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